the last few years I was in, during lunch at the assembly, "o.k. time to go home."
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Have you ever got up in the middle of a meeting, bored, and just left?
by JH ini did it many times.
first of all, let me say that just about every meeting i attended was a sacrifice for me.
i was a follower, not more.
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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rdw,,,
It musta felt so good when your mom said that. Validation,,, yes, that helps a LOT. I hope you and mom have a good visit, hugs and tears and all!
I just caught this thread, and am really hoping you didn't visit that guy. After all, it was SHE who betrayed your trust. He was just an instrument for her to take her anger out on you. Think about it ... I felt the same way about the women my ex toyed with (though he never actually 'cheated', he did the emotional cheating thing,,, did you? hmmm), but I had to realize that it was HIM who I should be angry at,,, after all, he is the one who pledged his loyalty to me,,, not them.
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I haven't yet, it will be hard to avoid the situation, I am rethinking my train of thought, thanks alot lol
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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If you get away with slugging the cheater, maybe you ought to give your brother a knock up side the head to get him thinking?
good one confused hahahahahahahahaha, you really made me laugh. I'll remember that.
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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Ditto what everybody else has said, rdw! Please don't run the risk of destroying the rest of your life by attacking this guy. I'm sorry about the adultry...it's a horrible feeling, I know...but to run the risk of getting hurt seriously/hurting someone else/getting arrested/getting sued over something your wife (who you are planning to leave anyway) chose to do doesn't seem like a good plan.
Hold on to your good sense, have a good visit with your family, and try to concentrate on what you can look forward to in life (which won't be much if you are imprisioned).
I know you're right luna, You really hit home on some points, it's such a difficult situation, thanks for your thoughts.
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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Hi RDW. I empathize with your pain. Infedelity is the highest degree of dishonor among mates. I hope that you can get over it one day. That kind of pain is what King Solomon refered to as the thing that would cause any real man to fly off in a rage over, though I hope and pray that you might use a little common sense in a world already gone mad. You never know what you might be facing if you take such matters into your own hands. I don't know the entirety of your situation, but I wish you all the best in acquiring closure to it.
Respect
Art
thanks art !!!!!!!
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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Yeah, man, I've been in a similar situation, more than once. It does'nt help, socking the guy is a pyrrhic victory at best. I know it's gonna sound trite, but living well really is the best revenge. And getting yourself together and finging a hottie who takes care of you and is faithful and likes you for you is gonna be the best revenge. And it's doable. Withing the realm of possibilty. And way more fun than punching someone.
Also....and this is coming from a guy who used to work security in mosh pits and loves a good scrap..so I'm not a wussy..but consider this, I'm screwed for life from getting hit on the head wrong. I have seizures for life. So if he gets a shot in, it could mess you up. Seriously. It just ain't worth it, i've been in lots of scraps, but you never know what the other guy can or will do. Period Even if you are fully justified. That's why I won't do it unless I'm backed into a corner, and there's no other way out.
I was thinking maybe just scaring the shit out of him, without hitting him, I can be very intimidating, working in a bar for 18 years will do that. But I do feel backed into a corner. I've heard some family members say, "I can't believe he did nothing about it." , How do you handle that ?
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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((((RDW)))), I hope you leave that guy completely alone. Your wife might not have even told him she's married. SHE's the one in the thing that cheated. He might not have known he was infringing on someone else's territory. Dump her. It'll help. Then go see your fam. That'll be healing.
I hope things get much better for you, RDW.
Hugs,
Frannie
He knew alright
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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Does the guy even know about you?
In any event, I'd refrain from doing anything that could get you in trouble with the law. No one is worth losing your freedom for, even for a single day. I've been to jail. It ain't worth it man.
PM me if you're in Toronto and want to meet up for a beer.
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Yes he did know about me, and still took advantage, mind you she could of had alot to do with it. It is just as much her fault I land at Toronto Pearson airport at 9 pm Sat.
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Confrontation times 2, My lovely weekend ahead. Any thoughts .......
by run dont walk inwell, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, i hope i make it .... just a reminder of what has happened ... last summer my wife went to ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it.
it's been 11 months, i've did the counselling, and i've tried to forgive her, but i'll tell you all something ...... "it just eats at you everyday, no matter how hard you try.".
so i arrive on saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, i just hope i don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail.
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Well, my life is about to change over the next week, the anxiety is running high, and the adrenaline is going full blast, I hope I make it ...
Just a reminder of what has happened ..
last summer my wife went to Ontario and stayed with her sister, at the time me and her were not doing to well, and while she was there she screwed around on me, and her sister laughed about it. It's been 11 months, I've did the counselling, and I've tried to forgive her, but I'll tell you all something .....
"IT JUST EATS AT YOU EVERYDAY, NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY."
So I arrive on Saturday, and day 1 will be taking care of this guy, I just hope I don't k--l him and spend the rest of my life in jail. Hopefully I'll realize it's not worth it and just walk away, but I sincerely doubt it. I have to hit him at least once, to have some closure and inner peace. I'm a pretty big guy at 6'0 and 225, I've never seen him or know what he looks like, but I know where he lives, so it won't be hard to find him. I know you women may not understand, but for a guy it is very hard to let it go, He interfered with my life and left it in pieces, it is like a mother protecting her young.
I plan on leaving my wife when I return.
The rest of the trip will revolve around my family, my mom is not doing well, my grandma also just died (age 100), which didn't help either.
She called me the other day, first time in over 3 years and said to me
"Please forgive me, and show me a little mercy, I know I made a lot of mistakes and I'm sorry."
Maybe thats all I really wanted form her, was a little acknowledgement.
It seems 25 years of anger just went away after that, maybe as humans we can forgive to a point with family.
I also plan on seeing my elder brother and special pioneer sister, man the topics we will cover, where will I start.
So I will fill you all in when I return and post my experience, I just hope it's not form a jail cell.
lol to all of you
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Why were Watchtower officials (Rutherford) imprisioned in 1917/1918/1919 ??
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i though it had to do with the book the finished mystery, .
why were they imprisioned ??
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Revelation Climax book (1988) chap. 6 p. 32 Unlocking a Sacred Secret
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Time of Testing and JudgingJesus was baptized and anointed as King-Designate at the Jordan River about October 29 C.E. Three and a half years later, in 33 C.E., he came to Jerusalem’s temple and threw out those who were making it a cave of robbers. There appears to be a parallel to this in the three-and-a-half-year period from Jesus’ ‘sitting down on his glorious throne’ in the heavens in October 1914 until his coming to inspect professed Christians as judgment began with the house of God. (Matthew 21:12, 13; 25:31-33; 1 Peter 4:17) Early in 1918 the Kingdom activity of Jehovah’s people met with great opposition. It was a time of testing earth wide, and fearful ones were sifted out. In May 1918 Christendom’s clergy instigated the imprisonment of officials of the Watch Tower Society, but nine months later these were released. Later, they were completely exonerated of the false charges against them. From 1919 the organization of God’s people, tried and refined, moved zealously forward to proclaim Jehovah’s Kingdom by Christ Jesus as the hope for mankind.—Malachi 3:1-3.
As Jesus began his inspection in 1918, the clergy of Christendom no doubt received an adverse judgment. Not only had they raised up persecution against God’s people but they had also incurred heavy bloodguilt by supporting the contending nations during the first world war. (Revelation 18:21, 24) Those clergymen then placed their hope in the man-made League of Nations. Along with the entire world empire of false religion, Christendom had fallen completely from God’s favor by 1919.
from Blondie on another thread.